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It does not matter what they do.
That does not mean their choices do not hurt, matter, or have consequences. It means I cannot build my peace around whether someone else finally understands, apologizes, changes, or treats me fairly.
I do not have to control their choices.
I have to be able to live with mine.
Sometimes the next right thing is an apology. Sometimes it is a boundary. Sometimes it is a pause. Sometimes it is refusing to say the thing I will have to clean up later.
I just want to do the next right thing.